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Paying For It

First things first, I don't get out much. So if I venture out after dark, you better believe I want it to be worth it. I was most looking forward to seeing Paying For It. But was it worth it? Without a doubt. Upon my early arrival into town, I popped up to see the Paradise ladies, only to learn many were going as well, (some for the second time) so off we strutted down the road to the venue. Which was quite nice really, as I had assumed I would be alone in the crowd.  At the venue I ordered a Jameson and took my seat as the lights went low and the empty stage glowed and patiently awaited some company.  Whether or not the many people in the audience were in the industry, I shall never know. It was refreshing to feel the vibe of the audience was a safe place. To be among the politely curious. The experienced. The darkness of the audience shed little light on who was who. And maybe I would have been stereotyping if I wagered a guess. But this was what the story tellers collecti

Nothing Personal

As a professional, we are wise and advised, not to take any sort of rejection personally.  This is of course, excellent advice. Which I have given to other ladies as well. I will continue to do so. However; being in such close proximity to another human being, especially one you have known for numerous years, how can you NOT have some sort of personal reflection.  Not based on rejection, rather; based on a lengthy timeline of establishing a connection, even though in a professional sense, we are human after all.  I suspect we touch each other in many different ways.  The way you are nicely treated, is remembered with such fondness.  Today I reflected while driving home. It fills me with a great sense of satisfaction that I have been in the industry for several years. It is exactly who I am. It fits me. It makes me feel like ME. And I realized, I love making you feel like YOU. Over the years I have met many wonderful gentlemen and ladies alike. I really am a lucky piglet.

Why I Love my Career

Funny as it may seem, but it is not just the money. Obviously I don't do this for charity work, I do lots of sponsoring and manual volunteer work OUT of the industry! ...but there are so many aspects to my job which I appreciate of which are just as important to me. Some of these are as follows. Independence Throughout my career I have been self reliant. I have been lucky to never needed to ask for government assistance. As part of a team at agencies past hence, I have had to rely on my own motivation to get my tail to work, and ensure my personal life does not suffer time constraints.  I have never been indebted to a person or financial institution (until I got a mortgage) but of course, that is a debt I appreciate. Freedom Escorting affords me the ability to have time for other interests in my life. I choose my own hours and work around my other commitments. If I want to go for a Sunday Drive on a Wednesday morning. Guess what I am doing. Not waiting for Sun

Massage

Not only is human touch imperative to our sense of wellbeing, it is a fundamental human need. It is our instinct to reach out and touch someone when they are feeling poorly, sad or unwell, conversely to congratulate someone with a pat on the back or handshake. We want to touch each other. We need to. Numerous benefits for the mind and physical body result from massage. It was not meant to be a luxury, rather, a part of life. Fortunately there are a host of ladies nationwide, who cater specifically to the sensual and deep relaxation techniques, that is the art of massage. What I can do for you! Invigorating and energizing techniques I posess very strong and capable yet soft and warm hands Relaxing deep tissue massage I like to concentrate on pressure points (aka trigger points) A full body scrub using specially formulated coconut scrub An intense foot rub using special foot balm for cracked heels Incorporated with hot oily body slides, breast sweeps and an eroti

"It's not you, it's me"

Getting and or, maintaining an erection can sometimes be a task for men. It's almost a miracle men can 'get it up' at all at times. So many aspects make up whether or not a man will get hard, and even then, stay hard. Medication, stress, nervous, excited, heavy work load, age, grief, illness, sexual experiences right down to too many beersies; all of these easily contribute to making it a task to get a strong erection. I can assure you, there are plenty of other fun activities we can do together while we see what we can do to assist. Escorts often hear a gentleman say, "I'm sorry, it's not you it's me," while apologetically looking at his nether regions. Please don't apologise. I wish all men to know, that we are not looking at your private parts as a true barometre of your pleasure, or an indication of how attracted you are to us. And always remember! "It's not the destination, it's the journey. Especially if you go fir

A day in the life of an escort

You may wonder what actually happens prior to your visit with an independent. You may picture your chosen lady as a lady of leisure, waiting for your call. Perhaps you envision her chilled out like a goddess on a chaise lounge seat, indulging in some grapes, swanned over dripping in pearls. Or you may think "golly, escorts make quite a bit of money per hour." Yes we do. If you look at it like that. But that would mean the rest of what we do is unpaid, and trust me, it all adds up. There is a heck of a lot that goes on behind the scenes prior to and after your visit. The first thing that needs to be done, is of course, maintenance and upkeep of appearances. I say this is the first thing, but only due to not being able to effectively market oneself if you don't look like a lady of appeal. This entails not just the typical hair and make up you see before you. Oh no... This can and probably entails: ~ Hair appointments ~ Facials (not those ones cheeky!) ~ Make up